
The Western Wall, also known as the Wailing Wall, is a part of the wall that surrounded the Temple in Jerusalem. It is the holiest site in Judaism, and this section of the wall is especially significant because it was closest to the Temple itself.
A young woman journalist assigned to the Jerusalem bureau has an apartment overlooking the Wailing Wall. At certain times every day, when she looks out her window, she sees an old bearded Jewish man praying solemnly, his lips moving and his eyes closed. Certainly, he would be a good interview subject, so the journalist walks down to the Wall and introduces herself to the old man after his prayers.
She asks, “You come every day to the Wall; how long have you been doing this, and what are you praying for?”
The old man replies, “I have come here to pray every day for 25 years. In the morning, I pray for my family and the brotherhood of man. I go home, have lunch, and in the afternoon, I come back and pray for the broader concerns of the world.”
The journalist is moved to silence, so humbled is she by the sincerity of this old man. Then she remembers her training and asks her second question.
“So,” she asks, “how does it feel to come here every day for 25 years and pray for these wonderful things? What’s it like?”
The old man shrugs his shoulders and replies, “Like talking to a wall.”
Our Gospel today tells about the unjust judge, who is described as a man with no concern except for himself. He cares nothing for God or the people. Also, in the parable, there is the widow, who has been wronged in some way and has come to the judge seeking justice. The judge refuses to rule on the case, but this does not stop the widow from repeatedly coming and pleading her case. Eventually, the judge says to himself, “If I don’t do what this widow is asking, she’s going to drive me up the wall with all her nagging.” So, he is forced to make a ruling because of the constant pressure she was applying.
Through the parable, Jesus is saying, “If this widow could change the mind of the unjust judge simply by coming to him repeatedly, how much more will our Father in Heaven, who loves us, hear the prayers of His people? Jesus says, “Will He delay long in helping them? I tell you, He will quickly grant justice to them.”
As I studied this lesson, I kept returning to that sentence: “God will quickly grant justice and answer our prayers.” Does He? I don’t know if you’ve ever experienced this, but have you ever prayed and not received an answer, or what you were seeking? I’m not talking about praying to win the lottery or get a date with Scarlett Johansson, nothing like that. I’m talking about praying for something that was truly on your heart—someone was sick, a relationship was faltering, a job was needed, or becoming unbearable? You earnestly prayed but were met with only silence. Night after night, day after day, you wrestle with God, but end up with no results. Everybody, nod your head.
Jesus makes some interesting statements about prayer. “Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” “Truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.” “I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.” I can possibly understand why I wouldn’t get the date with Scarlett, but what about a mother with a sick child? What about a mother who gave birth to a beautiful little girl only to discover that the child was born with cancer? Cancer running all through the child’s body. And what if that mother prayed with all her heart for that child to be healed, but before the little girl reached her first birthday, she died? Jesus said, “Ask for anything and I will do it,” so why didn’t he heal the little girl? What are we to conclude? Did Jesus not mean what he said? Let’s take a closer look at this mom and her daughter.
Did I mention that the mom got pregnant outside of marriage? The child was “conceived in sin,” so shouldn’t we really expect the child to be sick? Is there any reason why God should listen to the mom’s prayers? After all, she is a sinner. There’s one possible reason the baby wasn’t healed.
You know, Jesus says, “If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” So, maybe the mother just didn’t have enough faith, and that’s why the baby died.
Possibly the mom didn’t add “in Jesus’ name” at the end of her prayers, so of course, we can’t expect God to answer that prayer.
Or did you notice that the baby’s skin was much darker than her mother’s, a clear sign that the father was of a different race? Well, we all know that can only end in sickness.
Now, you might be looking at me with disgust and thinking that no one would ever say such things and that I’m a monster for even considering them. But what if I told you that these are comments I’ve actually heard in very similar situations? I believe they are all disgusting, completely erroneous, unfounded, and unbiblical. So, if I’m right and these explanations to the question are wrong, then why does it seem like God does not answer prayers the way He says He will?
I’m not smart enough to come up with an answer, so I did my research to find someone who could answer the question. I can either double the length of this sermon and dive into the research with you or just share my findings. I’ll go with sharing my findings. Why does it seem that God doesn’t answer prayers as He promises? Answer: I don’t know, and I don’t think anyone else does. But I will tell you what I do know.
I know that it happened to King David when he prayed for his son’s life—the child died. (2 Samuel 12:15-19) I know it happened to St. Paul regarding the “thorn” in his flesh—“‘Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’” (2 Corinthians 12:8-9) Paul prayed for relief, and the Lord essentially told him, “Deal with it. The suffering is good for you.” I also know it happened to God’s own Son. On the night before he was crucified, Jesus prayed, “My Father, if it is possible may this cup be taken from me.” We know the result.
In each of these situations, it appears as though evil wins, but we know better. While preaching on Holy Saturday, the day between Good Friday and Easter Sunday, Pope Francis said, “The prayer that Jesus addresses to the Father in Gethsemane also seems to go unheard. “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me.” It seems that the Father does not listen to Him. The Son must drink fully from the chalice of the Passion. But Holy Saturday is not the final chapter because, on the third day, Sunday, is the Resurrection. Evil is lord of the penultimate day. Remember this well. Evil is never the lord of the last day.”
“Remember this well. Evil is never the lord of the last day.” In our unanswered prayers, we believe evil has won, but it is not the last day. On the last day, the Lord our “God will wipe away every tear from [our] eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” (Revelation 21:4) “Behold,” the Lord says, “I am making all things new.” (Revelation 21:5)
When you pray, it may sometimes feel like you’re talking to a wall, and you might want to scream at God. Be faithful. Keep praying. Do not lose heart. When you pray, the thorn in your side might stay, or you might have to drink fully from the chalice set before you. Be faithful. Keep praying. Do not lose heart. When you pray, remember that “Evil is never lord of the last day.” Be faithful. Keep praying. Do not lose heart. God will grant justice to those who call on Him.
Let us pray: Lord, we pray for the grace and the strength to remain faithful to Your teachings and to the sacramental life of the Church. Help us to persevere in the commitments and promises we have made to You and to one another, and help us to persevere in prayer and confidence in You so that we may live our lives in accord with Your will. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.








