
I take no credit for this one. Mike Goodwin, a young Black man, is a comedian, speaker, and leadership coach. You can find plenty of his videos online; thatโs where I discovered this story he shares about his grandmother.
Mike says, โMy grandmother says there are only two things in your life that you have to worry about: whether youโre healthy or whether youโre sick. If youโre healthy, you ainโt got nothing to worry about. But if youโre sick, youโve got two things to worry about: whether youโre gonna get better or whether youโre gonna get worse. If you get better, you’ve got nothing to worry about. But if you get worse, you’ve got two things to worry about: whether youโre going to live or whether youโre going to die. If you live, you’ve got nothing to worry about. If you die, youโve got two things to worry about: whether you go to heaven or whether you go to hell. If you go to heaven, you’ve got nothing to worry about. If you go to hell, youโve got two things to worry about: crispy or extra crispy.โ
For many, a life with God has much to do with Heaven and Hell. For them, this is how the conversation of God begins: โDo you want to go to Heaven?โ With that question, the opposite is implied: โDo you want to go to Hell?โ So, if I approach someone and ask, โDo you want to go to Heaven?โ, who do you imagine is going to say, โNo, Iโm good with Hell.โ When the one asking the question, โDo you want to go to Heaven?โ receives confirmation, โYes, I want to go to Heaven,โ the next question will be, โDo you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior?โ If the person responds affirmatively, โYes, I accept Jesus as my Lord and Savior,โ you have what is known as โthe Moment of Salvation.โ
This Moment of Salvation has a great deal to the sorrow and repentance of sin, the turning to Jesus, and making amends for wrongs done. Again, not a thing in the world wrong with any of this; howeverโmy dear Protestant leaning friends, please donโt shoot the teacher, just presenting the history hereโthis idea of a Moment of Salvation didnโt really come about until the Great Awakening of the 17th and 18th centuries. Prior to this, salvation was more a journey than a moment, and that journey began when you heard the words of Jesus, โFollow me.โ
โFollow meโ implies not a moment of salvation but a journey of salvation and a lifetime of sanctificationโthe process of discipleship, that is, each day becoming more of a follower of Jesus. In following, we begin to live the life He calls us toโa life where we believe in Him and His word, a life of denying ourselves, a life of taking up our cross, a life of being a servant, a life of proclaiming the Good News, all of which is a life that cannot be sustained by only wanting to avoid Hell and go to Heaven. Therefore, Jesus never asked anyone if they wanted to go to Heaven. Jesus asked, โDo you love me?โ
Peter denied Jesus three times on the night before the crucifixion; therefore, to restore him, Jesus asked Peter three times, โDo you love me?โ However, this question to Peter wasnโt only about restoring him. It was also about the journey and sanctification through discipleship. In asking, โDo you love me?โ Jesus was also asking, โWill you follow me? Do you believe in me? Will you deny yourself? Will you take up your cross? Will you be a servant? Will you lay down your life as I have laid down Mine? Will you do all these things and more because this is what it means to love Me?โ In light of that, โDo you want to go to Heaven?โ is a childโs question, a โno-brainer.โ However, the answer to the question, โDo you love me?โ is not. It isnโt about a moment of salvation or a moment in time. The answer to the question, โDo you love me?โ is a lifetime.
Remember when Jesus said, โNot everyone who says to me, โLord, Lord,โ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven. On that day many will say to me, โLord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?โ Then I will declare to them, โI never knew you; go away from me, you who behave lawlessly.โโ (Matthew 7:21-23) How could such a thing happen? Why is that? Because there are many who will say they want to go to Heaven, but not all are willing to give up their lives for Jesus. Not all can say they love Jesus as He calls us to.
Whatโs also interesting about this exchange with Peter is that Jesus did not say, โI love you, Peter, do you love me?โ Why? As we said last week, Jesus proved His love on that hill outside of Jerusalem where He was crucified. If Peter didnโt understand that then, and we donโt understand that now, then we are not paying attention. Jesusโ crucifixion and death on the Cross declared in no uncertain terms, โGod so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son.โ Now Jesus, now God asks us, โDo you love me?โ
When asked which was the greatest commandment, Jesus said, โโYou shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.โ This is the greatest and first commandment.โ (Matthew 22:37-38)
When Jesus asked Peter, โDo you love me?โ he was asking Peter, โDo you agree with this? Will you love Me with all that you are?โ
When Peter said, โYes, Lord, you know that I love you,โ Jesus told Peter, โThen go, feed my sheep, and fulfill the second greatest commandmentโโLove your neighbor as yourself.โโ (Matthew 22:39)
When you die, youโve got two things to worry about: whether you go to heaven or whether you go to hell. If you love God, if you love Jesus in the way He calls us toโฆ youโve got nothing to worry about.
Let us pray: God, our Father, may we love You in all things and above all things. May we reach the joy which You have prepared for us in Heaven. Nothing is good that is against Your Will, and all that is good comes from Your Hand. Place in our hearts a desire to please You and fill our minds with thoughts of Your Love, so that we may grow in Your Wisdom and enjoy Your Peace. Amen.








