Two weeks!!! How the time flies when you are so busy doing preasty things that you can’t write about the preasty things you do. Sermons. Bible Studies. Last Rites. Kids (what a riot they are!), services, confession (not really… I like to pretend that people still come), and generally walking around in all black spreading the cheer and love of the Lord. I’ll take it. And I love it.
I just want to take a minute here to say how ridiculous newspaper / news websites headlines are. About 50% of the time I’ve no idea what the article is going to be about. Is that the trick? Fool with the headline so they’ll take a peek and we can hit them with more advertising so that we can afford to hit them with more nonsense? I don’t know, but when Britney Spears’ wrestling with papa is a top new story, I’m one who is wondering what they buried back on page 27c! Know what I mean…. yes you do. They all work for the Ministry of Truth and they are out to deceive us so that we’ll look at pictures of kittens and forget about the annihilation of entire races. Rant. Rant. Rant. Thus endeth the rant.
Lisbeth Salander
Movies: we are definitely back to the golden oldies here. The Swedish version of Stieg Larson’s Millennium Series and the 1978 version of The Stand. Both make me immensely happy and at least I don’t have to worry about them being stupid. Speaking of which… books!
I’m on a hardback edition of my favorite books and some new ones. Recently completed A Man Called Ove (which is a new one for me, buy have also added The Stand and 11/22/63 (yes… yes… both by Stephen King) to the stack. These last two are behemoths of a book and that’s just the way I like them. For the Saints Book Club at the church, we will be reading The Hawk and the Dove by Penelope Wilcock (book one in the trilogy). It is a short read, but promises to be a powerful story… keep you posted.
One thing I don’t like about myself when it comes to my vocation (there are several, but this one is sticking out these last two weeks): Last Rites… Ok, I’m supposed to be the professional, which means (at least to me) that I can walk into an emotionally tense situation and be the calming presence. I keep my cool, in hopes that it will bring a sense of calm and peace to those who are grieving. These last two weeks… my goodness… They told us in seminary that after a number of years in the same parish you would have to start burying your friends. This has been happening, but last week… Dang. I don’t want to be that cold distant a-hole of a priest, but wow… living on that emotional edge is an interesting place to be that I’m not entirely use to.
God: now this is the good stuff! God… I’m going to need someone I can sort this out with, but recently I’ve been discovering the lack of boldness in by prayer life… I mean, my prayer life for as long as I’ve had a prayer life! I’m going to need to think on this some, but…. yeah. Maybe I’ll keep this one to myself for a bit until I work it out.
What I’ve learned: My friend Heidi always said that being a priest would be whole lot easier if we just didn’t give a shit. Unfortunately, the longer I am…. yeah. (And I wouldn’t trade it for anything!!) She does too… more than any priest I know.
Thought for the day: Room 217… If you ain’t a Stephen King fan, then that won’t mean a thing, but if you are…. sometimes you’ve got to stroll on up in there, open that door, look the hag in they eye, and give her what for. Ain’t none of it real anyhow (unless you live in SK’s world.)
The Lord bless you all.
P.S. To all my blogging friends: I hope to get caught up on your writings over the next week. I miss your thoughts!
There was once a king who was very sick and whose wise men told him that if he covered himself with the shirt of a contented man, he would be healed. He sent his emissaries throughout the length and breadth of the country looking for a contented man. At last, several months later, they returned empty-handed. “Was there no-one in my realm who is contented?” asked the king. “Yes, Your Majesty,” they replied. “Then where is the shirt?” asked the king. “Your Majesty, he had no shirt.โ
The human body is about 60% water, which is why we often hear the importance of drinking enough water. We must stay hydrated, because dehydration can cause all sorts of problems within our physical systems. But our bodies are smart and most of the time, when our bodies need more water, we will become thirsty; however, by the time this sensation kicks in, we are already entering the stages of dehydration. You see, there are sensors within our body that tell our brains when the salt level in our blood is too high, which is an indicator of dehydration, so it sends a signal to the brain that the water levels have dropped and the brain initiates the sensation of thirst that we experience. Whatโs even more amazing is that the brain can detect and determine how much fluid weโve consumed so that the thirst sensation can be turned off almost immediately. The brain is literally regulating the level of water in our system to keep the body physically satisfied or contented. Not too much and not too little. Amazing. If only the brain could work that way in other areas of our lives.
Last week I read South of the Border, West of the Sun by Haruki Murakami. It is an interesting little story, but toward the end, one of the characters describes the west of the sun part of the title and it has to do with farmers in the Siberian tundra. She tells about how the farmer gets up everyday and goes out into the fields and plows the gardens. As the farmer plows, he can see nothing in either direction as far as the horizon. Just the fields. His day consists of getting up each morning, having his breakfast, plows until noon, has lunch, then back to plowing until the sun sets in the west. It happens day after day except in the winter when he works on indoor jobs. However, one day as he is plowing, something breaks and dies inside the farmerโs spirit. At that point, the farmer tosses the plow to the side and starts walking toward the west. Headed to the land west of the sun, thinking there must be something more out thee. Like someone possessed, the farmer walks day after day, not eating or drinking until he collapses on the ground and dies.
We can lead such lives as this. Lives that are never contented, causing us to always be searching for something west of the sun. Never satisfied. Always thirsty. It can occur in so many areas of our life. Relationships: having a solid and loving relationship, but always looking for something that might be better. Being invited to the prom by someone known to be good and kind, but waiting to give them an answer to see if someone better might ask. Having a job that provides for every need, but thinking there are others that provide more prestige. This is a terrible state to be in, but it is not limited to our worldly pursuits. It occurs in our faith as well. We experience a dryness in our faith. We donโt believe that God hears our prayers. We become discontent in our relationship with Him. Like the Psalmist, we call out:
O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water.
But instead of realizing that he is the source of all our souls desires, we stop what weโve been doing and we start searching for what is west of the sun. Something we believe will be more fulfilling or entertaining or less challenging. We go in search of something that does not involve the cross that we are called to carry or the sacrifices that must be made. In that search for more, our souls become dehydrated and we become disoriented and confused, we lose our strength and our vision becomes cloudy, we can no longer walk or even stand. Left in such a state, we will die, but in such a state, we can no longer care for ourselves. We are in desperate need of someone giving us a cup of water for our souls.
John said to Jesus, โTeacher, we saw someone casting out demons in your name, and we tried to stop him, because he was not following us.โ But Jesus said, โDo not stop him; for no one who does a deed of power in my name will be able soon afterward to speak evil of me. Whoever is not against us is for us. For truly I tell you, whoever gives you a cup of water to drink because you bear the name of Christ will by no means lose the reward.โ
What does that cup of water look like? Is it an attempt to solve the issue for them, by telling them what to do? โYou need to drink more water. You need to do this or that.โ No. Thatโs not what they need. Do they need a piece of your mind? โIf Iโve told you once Iโve told you a thousand timesโฆ etc.โ Thatโs not what they need either. If their soul is thirsty, do they need you to quote scripture to them? โYou know, Jesus says, โIf anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, โOut of his heart will flow rivers of living water.โ So, what you need is Jesus. Thatโll solve your issue.โ Truth is, thatโs not it either. What they need, in most cases, is for someone to simply bring them a glass of cool water; and what we are saying isโฆ they needโmore than anything elseโis to be loved and to know they are loved and to be shown they are loved.
I believe that people go searching west of the sun in search of fulfillment because they are dying of a spiritual thirst. They are dying because they do not feel loved and we can be the ones who give that love to them.
Let us pray: Dear Jesus, help us to spread the fragrance of your love everywhere we go. Flood our souls with Your spirit and life. Penetrate and possess our whole being so utterly that all our life may only be a radiance of Yours. Shine through us and be so in us that every soul we come in contact with may feel Your presence in our souls. Let them look up and see no longer us but only You! Amen.
The Calling of Saint Matthew by Michelangelo Merisi da Caravaggio
A man on vacation was strolling along outside his hotel in Acapulco, enjoying the sunny Mexican weather. Suddenly, he heard the screams of a woman. Rushing to help, he found the woman cradling a young boy.
The man knew enough Spanish to determine that the child had swallowed a coin and was choking. He grabbed the child by the heels, held him up, gave him a few firm swats on the back, and an American quarter dropped to the sidewalk.
“Oh, thank you sir!” cried the woman. “You seemed to know just how to get it out of him. Are you a doctor?โ
“No, ma’am,” replied the man. “I’m with the United States Internal Revenue Service.โ
I am sure we could find one, but I doubt there are many other individuals who are more universally disliked than the tax man. Even when our tax dollars are spent for good reasons, it just irks us to give them up and a person whoโs job it is to collect themโฆ theyโre just not all that appreciated. Our Saint for the day and the patron of our congregation, St. Matthew, was one such person.
In the time of Jesus, the tax collectors were known as publicans and the tax organization sounds like a multilevel marketing scheme. Youโve got the guy at the top, then another level below him/her, and each of them has a level below them. In the case of taxes, the ones on the bottom are doing most of the collecting. What they collect is then passed up the food chain to the head person, who then passes it all onto the government. Only catch: everyone in the chain, from the lowest to the highest is going to make sure they get a cut, so instead of simply charging the taxed amount, they charge more to insure they get their piece of the pie. (By the way, we still do things like this: see the $600 hammer.) Our St. Matthew was on the bottom rung, but he was still hated by both Gentiles and Jews.
He was hated by the Gentiles because he was a tax man and they knew he was overtaxing them and he was hated by the Jews for the same reason, but even more so, because he himself was a Jew that was working for the occupying Romans. He had no friends except for other tax collectors. Of all the candidates that could have been selected to proclaim the Kingdom of God, this Matthew was the least likely, yet Jesus did what we have seen God do on a number of occasions. As weโve been learning in our Sunday morning study, he chose Abraham who wasnโt even a believer to begin with, he chose Jonah who wanted absolutely nothing to do with those apostate Ninevites, he chose David who would be an adulterer and murderer, he chose Mary who was just a young girl. Matthew and all the rest arenโt the odd ones out when it comes to being called into Godโs service. They are the norm!
We believe that God can only use those who are holy and righteous, but as Jesus tells us, โThose who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sickโฆ. For I have come to call not the righteous but sinners.โ Why would that be? Because someone who is healthy can give a good testimony, but someone who is sick and is then healed can become a powerful witness, which is why Jesus called a tax collector named Matthew and why he called each of us. Like Matthew and the others, we were all once sick in our sin, but now we are the ones who can give witness to the mercy and healing power of our God.
Like Matthew, live your life as a witness to the Good News and the merciful healing of our God.
Then they came to Capernaum; and when he was in the house he asked them, โWhat were you arguing about on the way?โ After I read this and some of the other history of our church, I read the Gospel for today and had myself a little laughโฆ Then they came to Enid; and when he was in the house he asked them, โWhat were you arguing about on the way?โ
The interesting thing about a churchโs history is that you can really only talk about the buildings and the clergy, the people and who served, the money or the lack there of, and so on. What you canโt really tell in the history of a church is how God moved in the people. How the power of the Holy Spirit transformed lives. How Jesus truly entered this house and began the work of the Kingdom of God in this place. The buildings, the people, and all are only a part of our heritage, because it is these workings of God in our lives and the lives of those around us that are reflects our true heritage, and that really is the most important thing.
Jesus โtook a little child and put it among them; and taking it in his arms, he said to them, โWhoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes not me but the one who sent me.โโ Our heritage is about welcoming the child, welcoming Jesus into our midst and loving him and loving one another, for what other sign can we show that God is present than by our love for Him and our love for one another? Does the height of a steeple prove that love? Or the size of our endowment? Or even the number of cars in the parking lot? Do any of these things demonstrate the love of God and the love of one another? Not really. They do demonstrate commitment and courage. They also show a desire to honor God in visible ways. None of this is bad or wrong, but what they canโt show is love, because love is an action of the heart. True love is that which seeks the good of the other without regard for self and that is what it means to welcome the little child, but that is not something that can necessarily be documented. Instead, it is a feeling, almost a presence.
This past week, we had our Saints Book Club. Weโve just finished reading In This House of Brede. A beautiful story about the lives of the nuns living in a convent. The main character, Philippa, had come to the point when the older nuns would decide if she would be allowed to stay and become a fully professed sister. She was afraid they would not allow it, so she went to the sanctuary to pray, asking God to allow her to stay. The scene is set: โThe light flickering by the tabernacle was warm, alive, and as if they were still there, she heard what the nuns had sung last night at Benediction: โChristus vincit, Christus regnat, Christus imperat.โโ Christ conquers, Christ reigns, Christ commands. In that place, she could โfeelโ the prayers from the night before, because as was stated, โIf a place has been filled with prayer, though it is empty, something remains; a quiet, a steadiness.โ Our sanctuary is the same. You can โfeelโ the presence of the prayers that have been said there over the last century, but itโs not just thatโฆ and it is the reason Iโm so happy to be serving in this place, because, I can see the heritage in buildings and the books and the art, but more importantly, I can โfeelโ that more important heritageโthat heritage of Godโs work and transforming powerโI can feel that you have always performed the work that Christ called on his disciples to perform. That is, in the name of Jesus, the child has always been welcomed here. In the name of Jesus, you have always loved and there really is no greater heritage than this.
This yearโฆ your church is 128 years old. May the love you have shown in those years be a source of inspiration to continue in this great work of the kingdom for the years to come, until the great day of the Lordโs return.
Let us pray: We thank you, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Jane Austen is the author of Pride and Prejudice. Mark Twain was not a fan of Jane Austen and is reported to have said, “Everytime I read Pride and Prejudice I want to dig Jane Austen up and beat her over the skull with her own shin-bone.โ
The American academic and Shakespearean scholar, Duncan Spaeth, stated, โI know why the sun never sets on the British Empire: God wouldn’t trust an Englishman in the dark.โ
Someone once asked Ghandi: โWhat do you think of Western civilization?โ Ghandi replied, โI think it would be a good idea.โ
A young Hollywood wannabe was once bragging to the the great actress Miriam Hopkins. The wannabe said, โYou know, my dear, I insured my voice for fifty thousand dollars.โ Hopkins responded, โThatโs wonderful. And what did you do with the money?โ
Bessie Braddock served in the English Parliament for twenty-five years. Encountering a somewhat intoxicated Winston Churchill, she said to him, โWinston, you’re drunk.โ Not thinking much of Bessie Braddock, Winston replied, โBessie, you’re ugly, and tomorrow morning I’ll be sober.โ
It seems that insulting someone has been around for a as long as there has been language and Iโm guessing even the caveman new a thing or two about putting one another down. Growing up, I would have to say that my ability to insult someone was limited to that witty comeback, โYo mama!โ I may have improved since then. Many have and some even make a living at insulting others. For example, if it werenโt for the insults, the twenty-four hour news stations would run out of something to say within the first five minutes.
At times, the insult is just folks who give each other a hard time, and if they ever cross the line, an apology will follow, but it seems the insult has grown into a way of life. Not the sign of some quick witted response, but an assault to tear down and destroy. And when the words are no longer sufficient, threats and violence will ensue.
I remember years ago reading Ray Bradburyโs great dystopian novel, Fahrenheit 451. Seems it was one of those required readings, so I just muscled my way through it without much thought, but I reread it again just a few weeks ago and was amazed. A bit too close to reality. Neil Gaiman (sci-fi and horror author) wrote the introduction to the edition I ordered and although I donโt normally read the introductions to booksโdonโt necessarily want someone telling me what Iโm supposed to think about a book Iโm about to readโI did read this one, because of who wrote it. In it, Gaiman wrote, โWhen I reread it as a teenager, Fahrenheit 451 had become about treasuring books and the dissent inside the covers of books. It was about how we has humans begin by burning books and end by burning people.โ I had to underline that, because it is so true. As the story goes, those who would read were first insulted, then persecuted, thenโฆ burned. As I read the story, I came to a line that made me stop reading. I had to get up and walk around for a bit before continuing: โThose who donโt build must burn.โ We see a lot of burning these days. The events of twenty years ago that we remembered yesterday provide the perfect example, but in truth, we do the same thing everyday when we decide to burn instead of build.
We burn others by cruelly insulting them from our hearts. By speaking or even thinking of how to bring them lower. By raising our voices in angry confrontation. By dismantling the works of others for our own perceived benefit, in order to exert and promote our own opinion, or simply for the heck of it; but our ability to do so is not a sign of our strength. It simply shows our capacity to burn. Why? โThose who donโt build must burn.โ Those who donโt want to take the time and find the courage to build and create, those who become jealous and feel threatened by othersโ successes, those who are simply too lazy to create, and so onโฆ those are the ones who will burn, because it is much much easier to burn than it is to build.
Jesus has been going from town to town. He has been teaching, healing, feeding, and loving. Jesus has been building up the Kingdom of God. He asked the disciples, โWho do people say that I am?โ In doing so, Jesus is not fishing for compliments. He is secure in the knowledge of who he is, but he is evaluating the work. Are the peopleโฆ are you beginning to understand who I am and what we are building? It sounds positive. The disciples answer, some say you are โJohn the Baptist; and others, Elijah; and still others, one of the prophets.โ That is good, but Jesus wants to know what those who have been closest to him think. Are they grasping even more of the truth than the crowds, so he asked them specifically, โBut who do you say that I am?โ Peter answered him, โYou are the Messiah.โ Yes! The work is being accomplished and we are building something here, but donโt tell anyone about what you know of me. Why? Because there are those who arenโt building anything and if they discover too soon, they will try and burn it all down before the time has come; and Jesus knew who those were that would burn: the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes. He also knew that they would eventually succeed, so he tells his disciples, you are not to be like them. You are not to follow their example of burning. Instead, you are to follow my example, by building: โIf any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.โ You as my disciples are to follow me in building up the kingdom of God, because weโre not building something that moths and rust can destroy or something that thieves can break in and steal. No. We are building something eternal. What did Jesus say, โDestroy this temple, and in three days I will raise it up.โ Destroy this temple, burn it to the ground, and I will build a temple that not even death can destroy. He did and we are to follow, taking our cross, being crucified with him and being raised to a new and eternal life that not even death can touch. And we not only build up ourselves, but we are to build up one another.
1 Thessalonians 5:11โโEncourage one another and build one another up.โ
Ephesians 4:29โโLet no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up.โ
Romans 14:19โโSo then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.โ
1 Corinthians 14:26โโLet all things be done for building up.โ
Not only does this apply to those we know and love, but Jesus also makes it clear that this applies to those that hate us: โLove your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father who is in heaven.โ (Matthew 5:44-45)
Am I preaching on this today because I know of a problem within this body of Christ? Absolutely not. I see nothing but love and compassion among you, but what I do see is an increased desire within society to insult and to burn. It is like an infection that is going unchecked and unless we are aware of it and the symptoms, then we become susceptible, and then we become those who burn, no longer building up as Christ has called us to. As St. Paul teaches, โDo not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.โ
From the poem, Ulysses, by Alfred, Lord Tennyson, โCome my friends, tis not too late to seek a newer world.โ Let us be the ones that build and in the process, join with Jesus in the great work of making all things new.
Let us pray: Lord, make us instruments of Your peace. Where there is hatred, let us sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy.ย O, Divine Master, grant that we may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love; For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; it is in dying that we are born again to eternal life. Amen.F
Well… it wasn’t COVID (according to the two tests I took), but everything pointed in that direction. Cough, fever, congestion, no taste/smell, death warmed over, etc. It still bought me ten days of quarantine and although I’m not a huge people person… ten days is a bit much to be alone. Many thanks to all the messages, notes, breads, and cinnamon buns I received. Truly a blessing.
When it comes to no taste/smell, eating is just weird. What you discover is that temperature and texture become the primary attractions. A nice cold chicken salad with fruit, nuts, chunks of chicken… brilliant. Peanut butter on cheese is like having a wad of congealed, slightly solidified… you get the picture. It ain’t pleasant. Although, it was peanut butter that first keyed me in that I was missing those two senses. Yes… I always have a bit of peanut butter with my breakfast, but a week ago Tuesday, I opened the jar and… nothing. Really? And then it hit me. I thought, What is the most potent smelling item I have in the house? Answer: Benedictine! (Created my a monk in 1510 from 27 different plants and spices. Supposedly, only three people on the planet know the complete recipe… brilliant!) On a good day, you can take a solid sniff of Benedictine and you’ll likely burn your eyebrows off and most definitely all your nose hairs! It is delicious, but you must approach it with caution. It is meant for sipping and small sniffs. On that Tuesday, I picked up the bottle, removed the cap and gave a tentative… sniff. Nothing. I mean… nothing. I then grasped the neck of the bottled and breathed it in as though it were my dying breath… not even the vapors could penetrate the void of my sniffer! Granted, it was only 8-ish in the morning, but I gave myself a short taste….. my head bowed, my eyes teared, and my heart sank. Not even a tingle. I am happy to report that after ten days quarantine and two negative COVID tests, the sniffer and taster are back 90% with the exception of peanut butter. Odd.
Last week was spent mostly sleeping and waiting for test results. That is boring on many levels, but this week picked up and I was able to work some solid hours and read. I finished, In This House of Brede, and this evening completed, Billy Summers, by Stephen King. You should read Brede. An amazing and beautiful story. Billy Summers is a completely different kind of read. It is not your normal Stephen King supernatural. In fact, there is no supernatural in it (with the exception to a few excellent references to The Shining: The Overlook Hotel and that lively topiary out front.) Side-by-side, I would have to give Brede a solid โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ and Billy โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ1/2. Sorry Mr. King, but side-by-side… yeah. Next up is one I read many years ago, Fahrenheit 451, but having recently reread 1984, I thought I should… remember. Definitely putting a dint in that stack… with several others waiting to join (I will resist you, Amazon!)
Movies… seriously? How is it so much money can go into making so many bad movies? I may have to make my own.
Tomorrow I get to re-enter the world. I understand that it has been hot out there and based on the news I’ve been reading… COVID or not, I am an exceptionally blessed individual. The world is a mess right now and is in need of your prayers. Say one or two, even if it only amounts to, “Dear God….” followed by the shaking of your head. He gets that. I’m certain He’s done a bit of that Himself here recently.
Oh… before I forget: Nikita is the name of the Pinot Noir that I’m currently making. It is not named after the American version of this movie or the TV series (ugh), but after the original, La Femme Nikita, starring Anne Parillaud (hubahuba), written and directed by Luc Besson. Why Nikita… I’m thinking she will live up to this name. Will not be bottled until early October, but… wowza. Lots of flavor (even for one who is only at 90% tasting!) Haven’t come up with a label for it yet, but that image right there may just do the trick.
What I’ve learned: It won’t spoil the plot, so… Billy Summers is partly about a guy who is writing a book. It speaks of the joys and the “zone” you get in while doing so. That said, it made me hungry to write again. I’ve had a few fitful starts here recently, but I think I’m ready now. I actually don’t do well with too much time on my hand (which I’ve had), I don’t feel any pressure, but now… oh, yeah… I just looked at my calendar. Bring on a bit of pressure and bring on the words. Love it all.
Thought for the day: you will never know true desperation until you hang onto a C-17 cargo plane during takeoff in hopes that you can escape your current situation. Live your life like Zaki Anwari would have lived his had he survived. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Two Jewish boys were trying to outdo each other on how far back they could trace their family lineage. The first said, โMy family can trace our ancestry back almost two thousand years to the great Rabbi Akiva. So how far back does your family go,โ he asked the second.
Without missing a beat, the second boy says, โI don’t know. My father told me that all of our records were lost in the flood.โ
Family trees. Family reunions. Family photos. Families that are happy, dysfunctional, dysfunctionally happy, extended, small and so much more. No matter what type of family you haveโgood, bad, or indifferentโyou did not become a member by choice and youโre stuck with the one youโve got.
The word โfamilyโ describes our biological family, but is also good to describe a group of individuals who have a common thread, so it is often used as a way of describing the Church. You are my Church family and the comedian Les Dawson describes you well: โFamilies are like fudge – mostly sweet, with a few nuts.โ And you know who you are.
Not only family, the Church is also described as the Body of Christ, describing our unity and how we need one another. In his first letter to the Corinthians, Paul writes, โThe eye cannot say to the hand, โI have no need of you,’ nor again the head to the feet, โI have no need of you.โโ And a little further on, โThere may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together. Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it.โ We do not exist for ourselves, we exist for the Body. Archbishop of Canterbury, Michael Ramsey, was quite emphatic on this: โIndividualism therefore has no place in Christianity, and Christianity verily means its extinction. The individual Christian exists only because the body exists already. In the body the self is found, and within the individual experience the body is present.โ This unity is the fulfillment of Jesusโ great priestly prayer recorded in Johnโs Gospel: โThe glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.โ
We have this unity, but it is a unity that can exist at different levels, that is why when Paul speaks of the Body of Christ, he speaks of the body of all believers, but also about the Body of Christ as the local church; so we can say that contained within this church of St. Matthewโs, we are the Body of Christ, while still being a part of a greater body. As that body of St. Matthewโs, we gather as any family gathers, but in this family, there is a true dependence on one another, which means this body of St. Matthewโs has all that it needs to be the church in this place, but it cannot be that church without you. We have a dependence on one another, therefore we have a responsibility to one another. As St. Paul teaches, โLet each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.โ
However, in order for this body to be real, something more than just nice words, then we must have a common thread running through us all, and we do, Jesus. We have him, not just in our profession of faith, but as we said last week, we have his real presence in his body and blood that we receive in the Eucharist, and it is this Eucharist that provides a real and tangible common thread, binding us together.
In our Gospel reading, Jesus said, โThose who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them.โ We abide in him and he abides in us, therefore, we abide in one another. St. Francis de Sales preached, โWe are all nourished by the same bread, that heavenly bread of the divine Eucharist, the reception which is called communion, and which symbolizes that unity that we should have one with another, without which we could not be called children of God.โ This has been the belief of the Church since the very beginning. The Didache is a first century liturgical book and at the celebration of the Holy Eucharist, while holding the bread, the priest would say, โAs this piece of bread was scattered over the hillsย and then was brought together and made one, so let your Church be brought together from the ends of the earth into your Kingdom.โ Godโs Kingdom in heaven and Godโs Kingdom here on earth.
Have you ever been to a wedding where, toward the end of the ceremony, the couple lights a unity candle? Theyโve got a large candle in the middle and smaller ones on each side. The two smaller ones are burning and the bride and groom each take one the smaller ones and together they light the candle in the center. The interesting bit is what comes next: do they place the smaller candles back in their stands still burning or do they blow them out first. Did they light a flame together, but maintain their own separate flames, or do they extinguish their individual flames and truly only exist as one. (I once heard that the couple left the smaller ones burning, but after moment, the bride leaned over and blew out the grooms. To that, someone said, โDuring the marriage ceremony two become one โ on the honeymoon they discover which one.โ) Seriously, in the end, there should only be one flame and the same is true for us as the family and body of Christ, made one through Jesus who gave himself for us all.
Today, as you come forward to receive the body and blood of Christ, remember that we are the family of God, the Body of Christ, and recognize that we truly need one another. Without you, each of you, we are diminished. With youโฆ with you we become a flame that can set the world on fire with the love of God.
Let us pray: Lord God, you have built in heaven and on earth a single Church of truth and love and Holy Spirit; one family and communion, whose temple is the Lamb, One body indivisible, here and beyond: the body of Your dear Son. The unity of holy Church, its might, its Gospel, proceeding from Your unalterable will, is truth and love and Holy Spirit. Its ministries stream from your heart. We pray Lord that we might become this Church in this place: a beacon to the lost, a salve for the wounded, and a family for all. Jesus, in your name. Amen.
My question for today: exactly when did they start using super glue to seal up the single serve string cheese? I can only imagine these things going in some small child’s lunchbox. I finally broke out a knife and slit it along the side and there may have been a few choice words along the way. Now that I’ve got that off my mind…
Movies: started several, finished none. Oy. Next.
I continue the Camino prep / exercise. After going at it strong for a week I gained two pounds. Rrr. Ok. Fine. I’ll just keep at it knowing that the process works. Exercise and burn more calories than you take in. That’s how it is supposed to work, although it can be as frustrating as opening a single serve string cheese! Each day I have to tell myself the Nike slogan and then put on my Brooks and do it. I will definitely get there.
When Christians fight one another: a disgrace. As Charles Spurgeon wrote, “Satan greatly approves of our railing at each other, but God does not.” There are more than enough studies out there showing that the Church is in decline and there are also several studies that show one of the greatest contributing factors is the way Christians treat other Christians. Yep. That’s right. The greatest harm to the Church is not from the outside, but from within. Think about it: you see fighting in your home, at work, on the TV, in social media and you think to yourself, “I’ll go to church, because there I will find peace and unity.” But instead of finding peace and unity, you find more upheaval, more of the same, more of the world. Who needs that?! Not me. “The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips and walk out the door and deny Him by their lifestyle. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable.” — Brennan Manning.
The Christian is to remain humble. The Christian is to see themselves as the greatest of all sinners and their brothers and sisters as souls to be loved. The Christian is to build up and not tear down. The Christian does not wave a flag, the Christian carries a Cross (a Cross that is for you to be crucified upon so that you might die with Christ and Rise with Christ.) The Christian is a candle in a dark cave, seeking out the lost and showing the way to freedom, fresh air, and The True Light.
“Finally, brothers (that includes you sisters, too!), whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me(I was going to delete that bit, because it is not always what you see in me) practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.” (Philippians 4:8-9)
My goodness! He went and got all preachy on us.
What I learned today (and have known, but wanted to say): I also believe in miracles.
Thought for the day:
St.ย Teresa of Calcutta
โThese are the few ways we can practice humility: To speak as little as possible of oneโs self. To mind oneโs own business. Not to want to manage other peopleโs affairs. To avoid curiosity. To accept contradictions and correction cheerfully. To pass over the mistakes of others. To accept insults and injuries. To accept being slighted, forgotten and disliked. To be kind and gentle even under provocation. Never to stand on oneโs dignity. To choose always the hardest.โ
I donโt remember telling you about this beforeโฆ I know of a man who, while praying the Rosary, had a vision of the Blessed Virgin Mary.
He had been walking along a country road. On one side of the road was a piney forest and on the other was a field and a pond. As he was walking, he had been searching for the Virgin, but unable to find her, then in the distance, he saw her walking toward him down the road. He quickly turned and ran to meet her, butโand this is probably funnyโthe closer she got, the bigger she got so that when they finally met, she was able to reach down and pick him up and put him in her pocket.
He tried to see through the weave in the fabric of her dress to see the outside world and determine where she was taking him, but was unable to. Not only that, but the further they went, the darker it became until all was dark. Yet as the light had lessened, he had been able to detect something new: a sound. At first, it sounded like the soft beating of a drum, but a short distance on, the sound was unmistakable: it was the beating of a heart. He began to not only hear the heartbeat, but to also feel it in his entire body. Each beat was like a loving embrace. It was then the man realized that Mary had done what she had always done: she had brought him to Jesus. You see, it was not her pocket that she had placed the man into. No. Mary had placed the man in the wound in Jesusโ side so that the man could be near the beating loving heart of the Risen Lord where he had learned even more of the great love of Jesus. He had been allowed to remain there for a short time and then was sent on his way to try and fulfill the Lordโs will.
There is always much confusion surrounding the role of Mary in the Church and in the life of Godโs people, but that confusion only arrises when people fail to understand her purpose. Her purpose is to draw people in so that she can lead them or even take them to her Sonโฆ so that she can place them near His heart that they might know of His great salvific love for them.
I encourage you all to take her by the hand and to walk with her. When that walk ends, you will find that you have been brought to Jesus.
Eternal Father, you inspired the Virgin Mary, mother of your son, to visit Elizabeth and assist her in her need. Keep us open to the working of your Spirit, and with Mary may we praise you for ever.
We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen
May the Lord bless us, protect us from evil and bring us to everlasting life. Amen